Sometimes, you just know
Everyone's always talking about "the one" as if there is truly only one person with whom you are supposed to spend the rest of your life.
I don't think there is only one person you are meant to be with, but several. The trick is to find one of those with whom you are also one of their "the one"s. I have known several people throughout my dating career that I am positive it would work out between us in the end, but they just didn't feel the same way. They had everything I'm looking for, but obviously I didn't have everything they were looking for. Does that mean they are not "the one" for me? No, I just wasn't one of theirs. That's the breaks. While it may suck, it also is a good thing that I don't end up with someone who doesn't feel for me the same that I feel for them. I don't think there should be an uneven kind of love between two people...it should be 50-50.
Also, alot of talk comes up when two people decide to get married after knowing each other for a very short period of time (like a week, a month, or some short period of time like that). I don't see the problem, because sometimes you just know! If both people feel the same way, that they found their "one", then why waste time? Timing is nothing more than a temporal determinant that is relative to each person. I'm not suggesting rushing into marriage, but if both are sure, then their friends and family should cut them some slack and be happy for both of them.
Well, time for me to get back to work.
Cheers,
Rocco
I don't think there is only one person you are meant to be with, but several. The trick is to find one of those with whom you are also one of their "the one"s. I have known several people throughout my dating career that I am positive it would work out between us in the end, but they just didn't feel the same way. They had everything I'm looking for, but obviously I didn't have everything they were looking for. Does that mean they are not "the one" for me? No, I just wasn't one of theirs. That's the breaks. While it may suck, it also is a good thing that I don't end up with someone who doesn't feel for me the same that I feel for them. I don't think there should be an uneven kind of love between two people...it should be 50-50.
Also, alot of talk comes up when two people decide to get married after knowing each other for a very short period of time (like a week, a month, or some short period of time like that). I don't see the problem, because sometimes you just know! If both people feel the same way, that they found their "one", then why waste time? Timing is nothing more than a temporal determinant that is relative to each person. I'm not suggesting rushing into marriage, but if both are sure, then their friends and family should cut them some slack and be happy for both of them.
Well, time for me to get back to work.
Cheers,
Rocco
posted by Rocco @ 9:44 AM
1 Comments:
At 6:15 AM,
jprg4evr said…
Have to disagree with you there. I've seen too many couple split because they were incompatible. They have spent a lot of time together but they didn't follow the right plan to determine if they were compatible. Dating -> Living Together -> Engagement -> Marriage. This is a long process during which those incompatibilities should expose themselves. It's also important to recognize when there is a true show stopper incompatibility. Sure at times the relationship may feel "right" but, as difficul as it may be, you have to be strong enough to work it out or cut it out.
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